Being kind is awesome.
Being a furry friendly rabbit is awesome too, but without gut instincts, nice things can easily become prey.
Don’t delude yourself. Predators exist and while it’s awesome to think happy thoughts, it’s just as important to know there are those who prey off those who fail to acknowledge that where there is light there is also the dark.
Be kind and be smart too.
Narcissists come in all shapes and sizes with all sorts of tails to tell.
In time, inconsistencies in the stories they tell will emerge.
That will be your clue to be kind to yourself.
Walking away from abuse is not giving up. It is an act of self-love.