How To Talk To Your Children About Your Emotional Abuse Recovery
by Lisa A. Romano
I want to thank courageous Marie for asking me to do a video for children. The goal was to somehow create a video for the children of those of us who are struggling with emotional abuse recovery. I can only hope that this video can help those of you who are struggling with bouts of anguish, depression, and temporary setbacks.
Remember dear ones--the goal is to NEVER GIVE UP! You will beat this thing! Our wounds are real--but our minds and our hearts and immensely more powerful than any dark force.
May you feel the vibration of love being transmitted through this video dear ones!
Namaste--and blessing to you all for being such 'rockin' parents!
YOUTUBE VIDEO - How To Talk To Your Children About Your Emotional Abuse Recovery
If you believe you suffer from codependency issues, narcissistic abuse, and or have been raised by narcissistic parents this channel is for you. Whether you come from a dry home (non alcoholic-emotionally-verbally-psychologically-physically-sexually abusive home) or an alcoholic/drug addicted home, you may suffer from codependency programming.
I believe codependency personality disorder--is real, and it is the result of being raised to believe you are unworthy. When you are raised to believe you are unworthy, every thought that passes through the filter in your mind--is tainted by that thought which eventually becomes a belief.
I am not a licensed psychologist--and I am glad I am not. I am glad I am not because I am not certain my own opinions would not have been indoctrinated OUT OF ME.
The fact that we live in a society--and exist under this umbrella called 'Psychology'--and most of us when we enter into therapy are not asked about 'how we felt about our parents--or how we felt our parents felt about us' growing up is a huge problem! In addition, we are a world FULL of adult children of alcoholics--self absorbed--codependent parents--and yet--we are routinely treated for the way we feel, rather than addressing WHY we feel the way we feel.
What will help us all, is when we learn about how our childhood--and our brainwave states impacted our impressionable subconscious minds. Why? Because what you learned about your Self between the ages of 0-8 has become your psychological set point; how you see your Self and the world. Why? Because children are hypnotic brainwave states during this time of their life.
If you were not loved unconditionally--you have been downloaded to believe you are not worthy of love. For the rest of your life, you may seek outside validation to fill that void--AND in the process attract narcissists who NEED to be sought after--taken care of--and praised.
It is my hope that this channel opens your eyes to the divine YOU that lays in waiting--until you wake up and realize--its not you--its your programming. (copyright Lisa A. Romano 2015)