Some of us have been lucky. Our parents were open enough emotionally to allow authentic love to come through their heart chakra's and connect with ours. Some of us have known since the moment of our birth, we were wanted, appreciated, and loved.
But what about those of us who felt unwanted, like a burden, as if we were just in the way, and made to feel guilty for being born?
What happens to a child's ever developing sense of self, when they are bombarded day in and day out with the sense that who they are on a quantum level--is not worthy of being validated?
Do I sound like I am bringing the hammer down on parents?
Because I am.
There is no job more important than that of a mother or father. There is nothing more important in a parent's life than how that parent is able to make his/her child feel about Self. There is no job, no relationship, no house, no public honor, no goal more important in this world--than a parent's responsibility to ensure that their child knows he/she is wanted, appreciated, respected, and loved.
To treat a child with emotional indifference is to abort the child while he or she is still alive.
As a Life Coach for wounded Adult Children of Alcoholics, I regularly coach beings who do not know they are worthy. Because their parents were self absorbed, codependent, narcissistic, aloof, were mentally ill and alike, their experience of Self is negative.
Because ill equipped parents cannot sufficiently love a child in a way that is in alignment with their child's true divinity.
Yes I am critical of parents who are indifferent, because it is in the denying of this kind of abuse that children fall between the cracks, and learn to cut themselves away from their true Self--for the sake of their self absorbed parents.
Below is a link to my newsletter. I am hoping some of you feel more 'seen' because of it, and are able to see more clearly, that there was never anything wrong with you--but the impressions your parents made upon you--that caused you to believe you were unworthy.
Dear One--it was all an illusion...You Are and Always Were Enough!
Nicole 'Nikki' Kelly Suffocated 11 Month Old Child and posted photo of the body on Facebook.
Susan Smith Murdered Her 2 Children over a relationship with a man.
Casey Anthony~The World May Never Know.
To all you innocent angelic beings, who were denied your birthright to feel connected to a loving mothers, miraculous, divine, healing energy--We See You~You Are Not Forgotten Dear Little Ones...
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