by Lisa A. Romano
- True love feels safe
- True love feels nurturing
- True love feels calm
- True love feels easy
- True love feels protective
- True love feels expansive
- True love feels accepting
- True love feels inviting
- True love feels connected
- True love feels warm
People often ask me what real true love feels like.
I get it.
It's hard to describe what a strawberry milkshake tastes like unless you've experienced strawberries.
True love feels like looking out your kitchen window at 7 am to see your beloved digging into potting soil and planting flowers you love to surprise you and because he'd rather his hands get dirty than yours.
Imagine feeling seen that way.
True love feels like compassion. It feels safe. It feels like you know someone has your back. It feels like a partnership.
It does not feel abrasive, frightening, rigid, inflexible, like a power-play, domineering, minimizing, or condescending.
Love feels patient, even when you are in the wrong--your partner does not seek your mistakes as opportunities to kick you when you are down.
Love feels forgiving, understanding, and allows for partners to make (non-deal-breaker types of) mistakes without a need to prove our point, rant, rage, and take advantage of our partner's not so finest moments.
Want to know the fastest and most effective way to draw a healthy love relationship into your physical reality?
Of course, you do.
Here is the secret!
Treat your SELF the way you want a partner to treat you.
BECOME the PARTNER you seek.
And a big Thank You to my HUBBY!
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