Being born to narcissists means we have been born to people who are incapable of authentic love.
by Lisa A. Romano
Abandonment by narcissistic parents can create codependency later on in life for the child of a narcissist. Abandonment by a parent causes deep emotional wounds that can lead to a fear of abandonment and rejection. ⠀
Healing our abandonment issues begins with understanding why we fear abandonment in the first place. If you are the child of a narcissist, you were abandoned. This is not made up! You were actually abandoned emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. Narcissistic parents project their own flaws onto their children cause great psychological abuse.
Narcissistic parents essentially teach us--their children, that who we are as individuals and souls are unimportant. Being born to narcissists means we have been born to people who are incapable of authentic love. This inability to connect on a heart level to our parents, makes us--the children feel and believe its all our fault. We are unlovable we falsely presume.
This one false premise changes EVERYTHING. It alters the way we view and feel about the SELF...which causes negative chemicals to be secreted in our cells. It suppresses neural activity in the brain, which enhances depression.
It is crucial to understand WHY we seek approval--and WHY we feel poorly about ourselves. When we understand why we are so sensitive--it helps us gain control over our vibrations--and thus our emotional set points, or our attracting points.
If you suffer from codependency and or if you identify as being an empath, understanding how being raised by narcissistic parents impacts your emotional and mental health can help you detach and learn to think more rationally about emotional triggers related to abandonment and rejection.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
For more about attracting points--please refer to my book "Quantum Tools To Help You Heal Your Life Now"