Narcissists are cunning, manipulative and exploitive.
They seek those who are agreeable, kind, empathic, and often in emotional pain to dominate and control. It is never the fault of someone whose emotions were exploited by a narcissist, when they find their minds have been scrambled like eggs by a predatory type personality, period!
Gaslighting is utter abuse at every possible level.
A narcissist will gain your trust, draw you in, become everything they have learned YOU need, and once you are dependent upon them for all of your emotional needs, they've got YOU!
A narcissist will brainwash you over time to believe that YOU are the one with the problem. Since they have convinced you -- you should trust them, you do, but what you don't see is how they, at the same time have manipulated you to feel insecure about your thoughts, feelings, perceptions and decisions.
Double Jeopardy has begun!
If you dare to question a gaslighter, you will be doused with emotional gasoline! You will be told that you are ungrateful, selfish, paranoid, and crazy. You will be reminded of how stupid, nonsensical, and overly emotional you are. You will berated and reminded of all the times the gaslighter put up with and tolerate your ineptitude. Your sex life, your career, your family, the way you walk, or talk, will all be brought into question. Nothing is off limits to a gaslighting narcissist, and within a short time, the fire they have created burns deep within your mind, body, and soul.
If you ever feel like someone is treating you in a cruel way and they are enjoying it, that is because they are!
Get out and save yourself! Block all contact! Find a support system!
Tell others what you've endured and if they don't listen, find someone who will!
Love doesn't burn!
Lisa A. Romano is a Life Coach and Bestselling Author who specializes in Codependency and Narcissistic Abuse. She is the creator of The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. Lisa has a number of different online coaching programs that allow people to learn how to heal themselves of faulty childhood programming.
Lisa helps her clients understand the power of the subconscious mind, when activated through higher consciousness which gives rise to greater understanding of the ability to love the self completely.
To learn more about her transformative 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp
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