We Adult Children of Alcoholics in most cases have surrounded ourselves with toxic others. Our emotional set points are also our vibrational set points, or what I like to call our 'attracting points.' Very much like a radio station we have preset in our car, whatever vibrational frequency we were tuned to as children is the vibrational frequency we attract as adults. Perhaps the characters in our lives today are not called mom and dad, but the characters in our adult lives will no doubt be very close energetic beings to the people who raised us.
It is not uncommon for a son or a daughter who grew up with an alcoholic father or mother to attract an alcoholic as a mate. So Dear One, if this is your situation, do not criticize self for this attraction situation. You are simply exemplifying a fairly simply universal law. Like energy beings attract like energy beings, and at any point in time you can shift your point of attraction.
I hear some of you wondering, "But I hated my father. How could I have attracted someone so much like my father as a partner?"
Dear One, although we all live in a physical world, the ultimate reality is all that is--is first vibrational or wave like. Energy beings come vacuum sealed in various physical costumes, yet within the seal of ones exterior skin is held their vibrational frequency. You do not attract with your eyes Dear One. We all attract from a point that is unseen. This point of attraction is vibrational, and until humanity beings to integrate and accept this fact, we as a society will wander through life unable to reach the promised land within the chambers of our own mind, because we will have failed to comprehend the power of the I Am that is coded directly into our DNA.
Dear One, I have a challenge for you.
For the next 30 days I would like to ask you to consider not watching the news, reading a newspaper, or checking out the latest horrific stories on line.
For the next 30 days I am wondering if you would consider changing your channel?
For the next 30 days I am requesting that you imagine the idea that every time you tune into a horror story, or a war story, or some criminal investigation story--that you are in fact coming into alignment with that vibration or that stories frequency.
For the next 30 days I am hoping you never forget that every time you speak about something traumatic, you are in fact coming into alignment with that energy, and like a radio station you are tuning your vibrational being to similar traumatic energy planes.
For the next 30 days I would like you to begin excusing yourself from toxic gossip, or toxic arguments, or toxic interactions with others.
For the next 30 days I am asking you to shift your mental focus whenever you begin hearing your mind rewind some toxic conversation with someone in your life.
For the next 30 days I would like you to shift your mental focus whenever you begin feeling yourself being pulled back in time energetically to your thoughts.
Dear One, when we remember painful events we pull our emotional set points back to that point in time. We literally transport every cell in our being to that traumatic event. We put our mind and bodies into trance like hypnotic states and alter our emotional, vibrational set points.
Imagine for a moment if all beings everywhere knew the power of their own mind.
Imagine for a moment if each adult child of an alcoholic began to deliberately SIFT through their thoughts and began looking for diamonds rather than coal?
Dear One, all the POWER IS IN THE NOW, and only you can control your emotional and mental strings from within, through FREE WILL, and through the changing of your own mind.
In this respect Dear One, you are a creator god, and to live any other truth is to live ones life below a veil unaware there is a veil at all.
How sad is that Dear One.
I love you all...
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