Codependency and Boundaries: You can't set a boundary if you were programmed to believe that you have no innate value or worth.
You can't set a boundary if your brain thinks the goal is to ATTACH and never dare rock the boat!
You can't set a boundary if you're more afraid of people disliking you than you are with how much YOU like YOU!
You can't set a boundary if you've been brainwashed to believe looking after your needs is a sign of selfishness.
Yes, codependent people have issues with placing boundaries. Quite frankly, it could be no other way.
Healing is a decision to stay on. the recovery path until you've managed to raise enough awareness around the root causes of why you are stuck recycling family abuse and trauma. From there, it is a daily climb up the mountain of consciousness.
It's possible to heal from codependency and in fact, doing so is the process of your spiritual awakening.
Stay safe out there.
Boundaries are acts of self love.