Adult Children of Alcoholics-Stop Thinking--Start Doing
by Lisa A. Romano
If there is one commonality amongst we Adult Children of Alcoholics that holds us back from moving forward in our life more than any other, it is the fact that we tend to get stuck in our damn heads, and ignorantly sit back and act as if we are powerless to their looping.
Over and over we succumb, like paralyzed marionettes to the dysfunctional, nonsensical, unfair, critical, condemning, judging, self pitying, anxiety provoking thoughts that loop in our minds. Most often these thoughts haunt us as we are drifting off to sleep, when sadly our subconscious minds are the most vulnerable to data. Like an excel sheet waiting to be inputed with data before the closing of a days work, our subconscious minds accept the nonsense of our thoughts and logs it. While we sleep, our subconscious minds are victims to the only data we falsely believe we have control over.
We ACoA's have been lied to in more ways than most of us realize.
Many of us have been brainwashed to believe we are sinners, and that forgiveness, and salvation are things we mortals must work to achieve. We have been conditioned to believe that god is some entity out there in the sky somewhere that is keeping a record of our wrongs. We have been sold a sale of goods for the sake of being able to be controlled by larger super powers seeking to fund unique cash cows for individual agenda's.
Dear Ones, it is not just our parents who have taught us not to believe in the power of Self.
The divine truth is there is only a stream of well being and abundance and we are either staying with the flow of that divine power or we are pinching ourselves off from it.
How do we pinch ourselves off from the stream of divinity and abundance?
Whenever you or I fail to act upon our higher guidance, we pinch ourselves off from the very creative power that is responsible for creating the universes themselves.
Why is this lesson so important for Adult Children of Alcoholics?
This information is critical for wounded Adult Children from dysfunctional homes because in order to manifest abundant life experiences--one must first--believe one is worthy of abundance.
And because ACoA's and ACoN's have been minimized, criticized, treated with indifference, abandoned, and abused, our very upbringing has us stained with impressions that have left us feeling unworthy of love, as a result of not having been adequately bonded energetically to both mother and father energies. Feeling rejected by the beings that created us--causes us to reject self.
The Big Lie
The really, really big lie is--we are not mortal. We are in fact eternal energetic beings trapped inside physical hides with the ability to flow with the universal stream of abundance or not.
The Really Sad Lie
You and I have been brainwashed to believe we are only worthy when someone else says so.
That's a bunch of B/S Dear One!
YOU ARE AN ENERGETIC BEING WHOSE DNA IS CODED WITH THE ABILITY TO CREATE HIS/HER OWN DESIRED REALITY...BUT YOU MUST FIRST BELIEVE IN SELF...NO MATTER WHO HAS FORSAKEN YOU--INCLUDING YOUR FAMILY OF EARTHLY ORIGIN.
Be like the bees, the birds and the trees Dear One...Be you, fly high, and seek only to love--and embrace all that is you--no matter what others say--or do...