Do you feel...
- like a doormat
- and like nobody respects your boundaries?
Are you afraid to...
- tell your truth
- rock the boat
- say 'no'
- set boundaries with pushy or abusive others
- live your life on your terms
- make a change you feel you believe you should
- tell your spouse what you really think, feel, need or want?
Do you suffer from...
- narcissistic abuse
- the fear of change
- the fear of the unknown
- excessive worry over what others think about you
- obsessive ruminating over trying to get others to validate you?
Dear One--you are not alone!
Our next class begins March 1st, 2018
Registration is now open!
If you are ready to understand yourself in a way that will allow you to free yourself from dysfunctional thinking, believing, speaking, and behaving,
The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program has been created just for you.
- Are you someone who has tried conventional therapies and possibly many other therapies, but has discovered that they have offered little relief?
- Have you been told that all you have to do is forgive, let go, and stop thinking about the past in order to feel better about your life?
- Have you been living your life feeling invisible and unable to connect to how you truly feel?
- Do you fear your feelings?
- Do you doubt you even know how to 'feel' your feelings?
If you have answered 'yes' to any of these questions, don't worry too much. It is not your fault you have these issues. In fact, it's not you--that we need to fix--it is just your programming.
Science is proving that what children learn in their childhood becomes the framework for adult mental thought processes.
- If we were raised by dysfunctional people, then we have been to taught to think, feel, and behave in ways that do not serve us.
- If we have been taught that what we think and feel is irrelevant, then as adults, it will be all but impossible not to experience low self-esteem, tremendous self-doubt, and confusion.
- If we cannot value what we think and feel, how then can we ever hope to create abundant and healthy life experiences? We can't and the truth is, that is not our fault.
Children who have been raised by dysfunctional people have been brainwashed to think, feel, and behave dysfunctionally. Until we as adult children learn the mind skills we need to observe the faulty belief patterns that are stored in our subconscious minds, we will be doomed to repeat all of the negative patterns from out past.
This 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program has been designed to help wounded adult children who are awakening to the idea that they are codependent and have suffered from some sort of narcissistic abuse, heal from their pasts once and for all. It is a breakthrough coaching program because it literally teaches you how to BREAKTHROUGH the veil of unconsciousness that has you stuck and repeating patterns of faulty behavior from your past.
This program helps you...
- awaken to what is really wrong
- discover the faulty beliefs that have been running your life
- understand how to become aware of the faulty programming that resides in the subconscious mind
- heal the beliefs that have you stuck recreating painful childhood dynamics in your adult life
- process suppressed emotions in a healthy and proper way
- gain control over your thoughts
- learn how to connect to the true self
- find worth in who you are
- learn how to set boundaries with others so you can begin creating the life you always deserved
- teach you the lifeskills you were denied when you were a child
- teach you how to validate what you feel and honor your own needs
- show you how to set achievable short and long term goals
- create beliefs that empower you forward
- learn how to honor what you think and what you feel
- learn how to design the rest of your life on purpose
All children are in hypnotic brainwave states until they are about seven years old.
Why should you care?
You should care because whatever you observed, felt, presumed, perceived and learned to believe about yourself has been impressed upon your subconscious mind. Today, all of what you have been taught is running your life, although you are most likely unconscious to this reality. Don't worry, all men are born asleep. The good news is we CAN awaken and live the life we truly desire and deserve.
Do you believe you are worthy of love?
If not, you won't attract love or abundance, and that is not your fault. It is only a faulty belief that has been impressed upon your subconscious mind, BUT, your subconscious mind is responsible for 95% of your actions, beliefs, patterns, and decision making.
Science is proving that abused children end up becoming abused adults who also suffer from chronic diseases at a much higher rate than those who came from healthy nurturing homes.
Abused children are prone to...
- narcissistic abuse
- domestic violence
- social anxiety
- low self esteem
- and so much more...
The good news is, as adults, with the right information, tools, guidance, and support we can change the way we think. If we can change the way we think we can change the landscape of our brains. The ability to change the way the brain operates is called neuroplasticity.
Neuroplasticity essentially proves that when you change a belief you also change the landscape of your brain.
The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program helps you change the landscape of your mind through video lessons, meditations, exercises, written homework, Facebook livestreams, and through the interactions between other class members.
Wounded adult children have brains that have been forced to live in states of survival and this is not our fault. A child that has suffered from emotional abuse often times experiences post traumatic stress. Being forced to live in states of survival impacts a child's growing brain. Living in a state of survival creates patterns of belief and those beliefs dictate human behavior. If you have suffered any kind of abuse in childhood you must know that this is not your fault, but you must also know that your subconscious mind has been downloaded with beliefs that do not serve you.
To heal from these beliefs we must first become aware of what they are.
This 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program helps you heal those limiting beliefs.
Through the video lessons, meditations, and weekly homework assignments your brain will begin to undo the neural pathways that no longer serve you, while at same time begin helping you create new neural associations to healthier beliefs.
Each week for twelve weeks you will receive;
- a new video lesson
- a new brainwave meditation that reinforces what you learned in that week's video lesson
- a downloadable and printer-friendly pdf
- homework assignments
- access to our online member only forum
- access to a secret Facebook community that is moderated by me and my team
- access to a weekly Facebook Live event that is held every Saturday morning at 9 am est
- access to Lisa A. Romano and her team
It is important to note that Facebook is NOT mandatory and is offered as an additional means of support.
The meditations and video lessons are accessed completely through your personal dasboard.
The PDF's however, are downloadable and ready to be printed. We do suggest creating a binder of all of your weekly lessons.
During our Facebook Live events, I answer random questions from the members of the group. This is a great opportunity for members to participate live with one another and me.
How did I come up with The 12 Week Breakthrough Blueprint?
I was a young mother of three small children when my marriage fell apart.
I realized I was...
- living a lie
- miserably unhappy
- not telling my truth
- pretending to be happy when I wasn't
- afraid to ask for what I wanted and needed
- terrified about what my parent's thought about me
- overwhelmed by neighborhood gossip about my failing marriage
- suffering from depression
- suffering from panic attacks
- suffering from asthma, migraine headaches, a lack of sleep and many more health issues
- afraid of my ex husband
- afraid of the smear campaigns that had been launced
- ill equipped to deal with my imploding life
I knew the truth was going to hurt like hell, but I also knew it was going to set me FREE.
One day it hit me, I had programmed my children to live a codependent, people-pleasing life just the way my parents had programmed me to ignore my true self. That reality hit me right between the eyes! I knew I had to change but I wasn't sure what.
Step One...I decided to get real.
I decided I was going to do whatever it took to heal from this thing called 'codependency'. I also knew my parents, siblings, neighbors and in-laws were not going to support me. I knew that I was on my own. Yes, I was terrified, but I knew I had to figure out how to heal the subconscious and faulty programs that were causing me to do the exact opposite of what I wanted to do.
- I wanted to be loving, but I was full of anger
- I wanted to be peaceful, but I was full of frustration
- I wanted to be content, but I was full of anxiety
- I wanted to be healthy, but my body was failing
Nothing in my life was working. No amount of people-pleasing, or ass-kissing was getting me what I thought I needed and deserved.
- I thought if I took care of people they would love me.
- I thought if I fixed people they would be nice to me.
- I thought if I never complained people would never complain about me.
- I thought if I was kind people would be kind to me.
- I thought if I shut my mouth people would be considerate of me.
- I thought if I didn't rock the boat that everything would turn out fine.
Boy was I wrong!
Letting it Hit the Fan
More than anything, I hoped that my ex husband and I could fix our marriage. Nope, he wanted nothing to do with changing and so, I felt forced to change the only thing I could, me. Yes, our life and all of the messy details hit the fan, and yes, it was really hard, BUT, I am so glad I took the time to fall apart so my children and I could fall together.
Over the decade or so after the divorce, I struggled to heal myself of the web of confusion 'codependency' is. I made a ton of mistakes, but eventually found the road back to me. In fact, I even found true love again too!!!!!!
I want to share the path I found on my way to healing from low self-worth, codependency, and narcissistic abuse.
The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program is my personal blueprint out of the swamp a codependent mind can be. In it, are all the tools, lessons, and knowledge that I pulled together on my own healing path. I took over a decade of mistakes and condensed them into a three-month long program.
It has helped hundreds of people heal from faulty childhood programming.
Some members claim they have been able to heal;
- ptsd related to childhood sexual abuse
- the fear of being alone
- the need for approval
- feelings of unworthiness
- familial guilt
- the fear of the unknown
- the fear of failure
- the fear of success
- the fear of telling the truth
- the fear of making a decision
- and so much more...
One thing I absolutely knew was, there was nothing wrong with me, except the crap that I was taught to believe about myself when I was a child.
Being taught that your feelings don't matter teaches a child to believe THEY don't matter.
Being called names like;
- drama queen
....and so on teaches a young child's impressionable mind to not only believe they are these terrible labels, but children also believe it is their fault they are this way....
Dear Ones, it's not you--it's just your programming.
The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program shows you the way towards thinking, feeling, and believing in a whole new way.
Discover what you SHOULD have been taught as a child and how you can make up for lost time be discovering the power of a corrected mind.
It is my belief we are all on the path towards ascension...
We have come to Master what has happened to us in our lifetimes so that we can have more creative control over our futures..
This program will request that you go where you may have never wished to go before, but it will also ultimately teach you, that the power to no longer fear your pain was within you all along...
This program will help you FEEL and connect to lost parts of you-you may have needed to dissociate from simply because no one ever taught you how to process your emotions, or because you were forced to live in a state of survival...
To transcend, overcome, ascend, and integrate it is necessary that we learn how to love all aspects of our personality self, including our painful wounds and memories...
As we learn to honor the experiences of the divine inner child, rather than fear them or feel ashamed of them, we learn to appreciate our past, including what happened to us when we were powerless to control our circumstances.
You can heal Dear One.
I would be honored if you joined me for our next Breakthrough Coaching Class, March 1st, 2018
I bow to the eternal love and light that is ABSOLUTELY in YOU!
Lisa A. Romano
Breakthrough Life Coach
Disclaimer; Lisa A. Romano is a Certified Life Coach and not a psychiatrist or psychologist. All members take part in this revolutionary type of healing program at their own risk, knowing that they will be triggered as part of the work involved in this online program. All members are responsible for their own mental health and take part knowing that this program in no way is to take the place of professional mental help therapies. All members understand that this coaching program is not one to one coaching. This is an online group coaching program opposed to one to one coaching.